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Don't Say These Things If You Don't Want Him To Leave You.

This Is For Ladies; Men Could Read Only To Be More Specific.
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All men want to be treated like kings in a relationship, and I think if women don't indulge that sometimes, their men are likely to stray and look for someone who can give that to them.
Men do not need any extraordinary thing from you; they just need some of your love you can easily give your man. However, they are a bit complicated because men do not express their emotions and their expectations from you. They want you to do things they like; you have to conclude the things your man like or you should devise another thing that could meet up his expectation to you. Therefore, sometimes he leaves his mind open for you so you can read it and do the things he likes.
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You must be sensitive enough to detect the hidden meanings of things he says to you. Whenever you are rude or insensitive to him or anything else, he is not going to tell you on your face that you are upsetting him for no reason. He would not point out that you commented insanely or your comment was hurtful.
Instead, he would keep all these things to himself while you won't be caring for him. Eventually, these harsh feelings would become powerful enough to destroy your little kingdom of love.
Without feelings of respect, what is there to distinguish men from beasts?
You would think that no relationships are alike and hence each relationship is unique. Yes, you are right, but there are some fundamental and universal concepts you can adhere while communicating to him.
Communication can be destructive as well as constructive, depending on the kind of things you chose to talk about with your man. You must be aware of unacceptable talking points so that you may keep yourself away from destructive communication.
Here are few points for your constructive talking and caring your man's feelings. You can reduce the risk of losing him forever.

1. Never Bring Up Your Exes Actively During Any Talk

Do not sabotage your new relationship with your last relationship's poison.
The best rule of thumb to follow is that; never bring up your romantic history unless your man asks you to disclose. He does not even need to know that how was your ex. You do not need to tell him that how handsome was your ex; how great he was in bed or how a charming personality he had. You do not need to tell that you liked this and this thing in your ex.
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Your man does not require any negative comments about your ex because he wants you to speak about himself, not about your ex. Your man would become insecure when you would frequently bring up your ex out of the blue. Never give him this insecurity.

2. Never Make Punitive Comment To Bruise His Ego/Manhood.

A Man With Dreams Needs A Woman With Vision.
He is proud of his personality and abilities to care about people he loves the most and "You." His ego is everything he has. He may be prone to mistakes in his life; a lot of mistakes.
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Men have a fragile ego; therefore, it does not need much effort to take them down. A little mistake can cause a lot of insecurity about you. You should not be kicking him while he is already down; instead, he needs you at his side. If your man is going through any slump, try to build him into something better because he had given his strings in your hands. Your harsh comments in such a condition can make him feel worse than he is feeling already. He is not a child who needs the lecture; instead, he needs your support.
If you would not be there in his toughest times supporting him, than he would never want you to enjoy with him when he is at best. You would not deserve him in his best times if you did not support him in his worst times.

3. Never Ever Say Anything Bad About His Mother

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Mother is whole life for a real man. He would not be deciding alone to make you most important woman in his life; his mother would always be on the top. His mother is his "Queen," and you must remember this before speaking about his mother.
The moment when you would even think negative about his mother, he won't be entertaining you anymore. His mother is the one who raised him to be a man you love, he would show appreciation for her and you should too. You must think twice or maybe thrice whenever you are going to attack the most important person in his life. He would never be at your side, and he should not be at your side in fact. You would be initiating a permanent threat to your relationship knowingly or unknowingly.
Don't Expect Him To Treat You Right If You Aren't Acting Right.
In our culture woman think that their mother-in-law is their worst enemy. However, they do not think the other side that their same enemy has raised a man you like, love and trust the most in the world. Women should respect their mother-in-law as their own mother because she is the same person who raised a man to make you feel like a queen. Even if your man is somehow rude to his mother, you should tell him not to be. He would never think of losing a woman who thinks positive about his family more than he does.

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Ladies, if there is other, basic point, which can make your man, leave you then do share with people and me reading this.
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