Don't You Be So Nice To Me; I Fall In Love So Easily.
It might be a very thrilling and exciting feeling whenever you find a person whom you feel an intimate connection. You start dreaming about achieving all your life goals with that person. Just because, you thought him or her as your soulmate at the first interaction. The overflowing love emotion blinds you, and thus you want to make up things quickly.
However, you might need to be cautious when you are falling in love with someone you just knew a day ago. A famous proverb says right that "Haste Makes Waste."
1. You Are Missing To Know The Bad Side Of The Other Person
If you are heading towards a person, there is 100% probability that you would not know the bad habits of the other person. You must know the good and bad parts of the personality of another person. When you would overlook, these bad elements would be problematic for you in future when you come to know.
2. You Would Miss Or Skip The Important Relationship Milestones
You have few fantastic and exciting dates with someone does not mean that you have achieved your relationship milestones. Neither has it said you both are ready to be soulmates throughout the life. You can't afford to rush through quickly. You would never afford to miss the milestones like the first kiss, the first fight and other essential things like that.
3. You Are Not Completely Familiar To Something. Thus, You Can't Risk Committing
You can't start up a business and your money in that without any research, right? The same is with the relationship. You can't afford to invest your precious feelings and time for someone whom you don't know entirely. You are investing yourself when you fall for someone, better you do your homework first.
4. You see The Fairytale Aspect Of The Love Life.
You are expecting to be in a fairytale relationship with a successful conclusion. However, you are overlooking the fact that fairytale narratives and storylines are far away from real life. There are too many complications in real life, and you can't even see something coming from some side. You must be aware of all the difficulties and harshness before falling in love. You have to find the feasibility of being together.
5. You Would Be Losing Or Changing Yourself For Someone Too Quickly.
When we fall in love with someone and deeply connect to him or her, we might need to change a huge part of ourselves. The first change you would make would be making space in your life for that new person you love. However, things should not be too vigorous because at the end he or she might say you are not whom I loved. That moment you would be helpless because you already have lost yourself for him or her.
6. You Have Not Seen All Sides Of Your Partner Yet.
You must be able to see all sides of your partner, and he or she must show you their bad and good sides. The person if not showing you all of his aspects and hiding something than back off because he or she is not honest with you. You should know how he or she would act in some group setting. How he or she treats families and strangers? How they respond when angry, scared, confused or sad. To see these things you might need time.
7. You Might Be Confused Between Love And Lust.
Usually, overaged people confuse love for lust or only take it as physical attraction. Whenever they feel that they fell in love at first sight, that is their lust and physical attributes. Knowing the fact that physical attraction is vital before getting into an emotional connection, you would never be able to build a healthy relationship with this concept.
8. You Must Have Some Worth In The Relationship.
You would be falling for someone too quickly means you do not have any worth. You don't have worth than better be alone. Your partner would never value you because you were readily available to him or her. You would never be able to earn some respect in the relationship.
9. Remember Best Things Always Take Time.
You should know love is not a worthless thing and so it takes time to go deeper in your and your partner's heart. You have to earn love you deserve by fighting with the lust of your heart. No one is going to place love on the silver platter and presenting you respectfully. Take your time in building a relationship with a builder takes time to make a perfect building.
Because:
When something feels as good as falling in love, you would want to savor that feeling as much as possible.
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