You cannot identify anyone for the type of person they are immediately. This is a process, which takes much time and consideration. This world is known for its deceptions and deceits. Many people who involve themselves in our lives are selfish and work for their personal gain. We all live our personal stories of trauma and drawbacks, not many of us are capable of staying positive after going through a lifetime of negativity.
Some people are negative from the birth and some of the people become negative after going through the negative experiences of their lives.
The most careful consideration of all should be when it comes to choose our life partners. Most of the people let their relations go in a natural flow but what's bad in keeping an eye on your future.
Here are signs that will show if your boyfriend is one of those emotional losers who are abusive too!
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This hardly means that he often disrespects you instead he will try to gain the trust, which is the most important pillar of a relationship. Once you begin trusting him with your deepest darkest secrets, he will start showing you his true self. If he always performs a critical analysis of everybody for his own pleasure and points out their drawbacks, eventually he start doing this with you. He will start looking down upon you.
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He will try to act if he is the only human on this entire planet who suffered for the sins of every human being ever existed. He will try to gain your sympathy by telling you the difficult stories of his past. He will act as if the past was cruel on him and now he has emerged as a strong man. Not everybody is same, some people actually fight their hard circumstances but then again not everyone is the same.
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Whenever he will tell you about his past relationships, he will act as he was the victim every time. He will make you feel sorry for himself. He will show you that he does not believe in love and he has lost all the hope on the way down here. Do you know what does he expect from you after sharing all this crap with you? He wants you to heal him, yes some people actually need healing process, who really go through harsh realities but not everyone. He wants to build a relationship, in which he would allowed to say or do anything he wants however you are supposed to be good and nice because you are the healer and he is the one damaged.
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He might be into some really bad habits but not without excuses. He would explain some perfect lame excuses for every single bad habit he is into. He might be a smoker or he might be doing drugs. He will tell you about these habits but when you will ask him to leave these bad habits, he will start all over his crappy story again. You know why? Because he has lost his hope and now it is your obligation or duty to heal him so that he could get on with his life once again.
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Men always get the upper hand because they are men. You know things like, men are possessive because they are men. Men are in control because they are men. Men are domineering because they are men. In critical situations, men take the decisions, what the hell? because they are men. Things have been like this since the ancient times. However, now the world in changing, these things are not acceptable in the life anymore. But if your man acts like this, it is because of his emotional state and insecurity. You need to keep a double check on this.
I hope that this stuff comes in handy for all you of out there. Please share your opinion in the comments section below. We would love to hear your views.
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